You already know excuses in three languages; let’s finally learn how to say everything else.
Most hobby learners do best focusing on one language, maybe two if life is calm and time is steady. Each extra language splits not just your time but also your mental energy and motivation. If you insist on two, pick a clear priority language, give it more hours, and schedule them on different days or times. Only consider three at once if at least one is already strong and mostly in ‘maintenance mode’ with light exposure. When in doubt, go narrower and deeper—you can always add another language later once the first feels solid.
You absolutely can get very far with free tools, especially for reading, listening, and vocabulary. The two things that are hardest to get for free are consistent speaking practice and tight feedback on your mistakes, which is where a good tutor shines. If money is tight, combine free resources with occasional paid sessions: even one focused lesson every few weeks can correct big errors and boost confidence. If you truly can’t afford tutoring, you’ll need to be more deliberate about language exchanges, self-recording, and using AI for targeted feedback—but it’s still doable.
‘Conversational’ means different things, but for everyday chats (ordering, small talk, simple opinions), many people reach it in 6–18 months if they study consistently. Think in hours instead of months: roughly 200–400 focused hours often gets you to a basic conversational level in many common languages, more for harder ones or if your native language is very different. That can be 30 minutes a day for a couple of years or an hour a day for under a year. Progress isn’t linear—plateaus and bursts are normal—so what matters most is showing up regularly with a plan, not chasing a magic number.