Your kid’s degree shouldn’t depend on debt, panic, or wishful thinking—start treating it like a real-life project now.
Earlier is always easier, but it’s almost never ‘too late’ to improve things. Starting when a child is a baby gives your money 15–20 years to grow, so even small monthly amounts have time to compound. If your child is already a teenager, you probably can’t save the whole cost, but you can still soften the blow: put aside what you realistically can, steer them toward value-for-money options, and be honest about the role of part‑time work, scholarships, or loans. The key is to stop waiting for a perfect moment and start with any amount you can keep up.
You can borrow for education; you can’t borrow for old age. In most cases, you should protect your own basic retirement first—especially if there’s no strong state pension where you live. That means at least capturing any employer pension match or tax-advantaged retirement savings before you stretch for tuition. Once your minimum retirement track is in place, you can direct extra money toward kids’ education. It may feel selfish, but becoming financially dependent on your children later can hurt them far more than graduating with a manageable level of student debt.
Sometimes a famous name pays off, but often it doesn’t justify double or triple the cost. What matters most is the field of study, the student’s effort and network, and whether debt stays at a level their future income can handle. A strong student at a good, affordable institution—public university, community college then transfer, apprenticeship, or solid regional school—can do just as well in life as someone at a big-name campus. Run the numbers: if the ‘prestige’ choice means decades of heavy loan payments or your retirement at risk, it’s probably too expensive for what you get back.