The four heights
The same task, four distances: today's deadline, the next reviewer, the stuck moment, the pattern.
Execute — do the immediate task
+Decline the board prep meeting on Thursday at 4:00 p.m. from Robert Lane, explain that I am flying…
Execute — do the immediate task
+Decline the board prep meeting on Thursday at 4:00 p.m. from Robert Lane, explain that I am flying that evening and cannot attend, propose two alternate times next week (Wednesday 11:00 a.m. or Friday 3:00 p.m.), and ask to be copied on any materials or decisions from that session.
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Improve — make it easier to accept
+Before I decline Robert Lane’s Thursday board-prep invite, make the decline constructive: say…
Improve — make it easier to accept
+Before I decline Robert Lane’s Thursday board-prep invite, make the decline constructive: say briefly why I can’t attend, offer two explicit alternatives with time zones, state which parts of the agenda I can input on in advance, and request the meeting notes and action items afterward so I stay in the loop.
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Decide — diagnose the stuck moment
+I declined Robert Lane’s Thursday 4:00 p.m. board-prep because of travel but didn’t propose other…
Decide — diagnose the stuck moment
+I declined the Thursday meeting but didn’t offer alternatives.
I declined Robert Lane’s Thursday 4:00 p.m. board-prep because of travel but didn’t propose other times. I’m worried he’ll view me as uncommitted and schedule without my input. I don’t know his flexibility or which agenda items need my input. What should I say now to preserve influence and avoid being written out of decisions?
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Become — change the pattern
+Over time I keep declining meetings and then find out decisions were made without me. Where am I…
Become — change the pattern
+I decline meetings and then get excluded from outcomes.
Over time I keep declining meetings and then find out decisions were made without me. Where am I losing influence, and what three habits should I change when declining invites so I remain informed and able to contribute?
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