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What is the Deferred Connection Fallacy?

A person often believes there will be more time later to connect with others. This belief is a type of procrastination. It applies to relationships, assuming they can be restarted after life becomes less busy.

By Pawan Nayar · from the LLOS AI Learning record

The rule

A person often believes there will be more time later to connect with others.

This belief is a type of procrastination. It applies to relationships, assuming they can be restarted after life becomes less busy.

The Deferred Connection Fallacy is a thinking mistake. A person thinks they can always connect with someone later. This is like delaying important tasks. The person believes relationships can wait until life is easier. This idea is common for many people.

A student focuses only on schoolwork. The student thinks there will be plenty of time to call friends after graduation. The student does not realize that friendships need regular effort. After graduation, the friends have moved on, and the connection is lost.

Words you'll need

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Questions people ask

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How does a crush differ from real connection?

A crush makes another person seem flawless. This can be an unrealistic idea.

How can a person ask a sensitive question without making the other person feel pressured?

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What to remember

A person often believes there will be more time later to connect with others. This belief is a type of procrastination. It applies to relationships, assuming they can be restarted after life becomes less busy.