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What happens when adults in a blended family stop loving each other?

In blended families, the romantic relationship between the adults is the main connection. If this relationship ends, it can cause many problems for everyone in the family. This is because many attachments are broken at once.

By Pawan Nayar · from the LLOS AI Learning record

The rule

In blended families, the romantic relationship between the adults is the main connection.

If this relationship ends, it can cause many problems for everyone in the family. This is because many attachments are broken at once.

When adults in a blended family stop loving each other, it can break many important connections. This is called 'attachment disruption.' In a first family, the bond between a parent and child is most important. In a blended family, the romantic love between the adults holds the new family together.

A parent and a stepparent in a blended family decide to separate. The children lose a stepparent they had grown close to. The stepparent loses their role and the children they cared for. This causes a second wave of sadness and loss for many family members.

Words you'll need

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Resilience Engineering

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Questions people ask

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Why does a child sometimes prefer one parent over the other?

A child's preference for a parent is not about love. It is about what the child needs at a specific time.

Why do some grandparents show favoritism to one grandchild over others?

Grandparent favoritism is often not about the grandchildren themselves. It is a way for the grandparent to express feelings towards their own children.

Why do children act differently with grandparents than with parents?

Children often act differently with grandparents. Grandparents offer a 'do-over' experience.

Why does a child sometimes seem to push a parent away?

A child's desire for independence is a positive step. It means the child feels safe and loved.

What to remember

In blended families, the romantic relationship between the adults is the main connection. If this relationship ends, it can cause many problems for everyone in the family. This is because many attachments are broken at once.