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What is the Looking-Glass Self and why is it important for understanding how people see themselves?

The Looking-Glass Self describes how a person sees themselves based on how other people see them. A person's self-image is shaped by what they believe others think of them. This concept helps explain why a person might feel misunderstood.

By Pawan Nayar · from the LLOS AI Learning record

The rule

The Looking-Glass Self describes how a person sees themselves based on how other people see them.

A person's self-image is shaped by what they believe others think of them. This concept helps explain why a person might feel misunderstood.

The Looking-Glass Self is a concept where a person imagines how they appear to others. The person then imagines how others judge that appearance. Finally, the person develops feelings about themselves based on these imagined judgments. This process is important because it shows how social interactions build a person's self-image. A person's self-perception is not only internal. It is also a reflection of what a person believes others think of them. Teenagers often feel this strongly. They are very aware of how others see them. If the way others see them does not match how they see themselves, it can cause distress.

A student feels shy and quiet. Other students often tell the student, 'You are so confident!' The student starts to believe they are confident, even though they do not feel that way inside. The student's self-image changes based on what others say.

Words you'll need

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Questions people ask

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How can old family stories be made important to a teenager?

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How can a person connect with others when they have low energy?

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What to remember

The Looking-Glass Self describes how a person sees themselves based on how other people see them. A person's self-image is shaped by what they believe others think of them. This concept helps explain why a person might feel misunderstood.