Conflict is a normal part of any relationship. The strength of a relationship comes from how quickly and honestly people fix problems after they happen. This process is called 'rupture and repair'.
By Pawan Nayar · from the LLOS AI Learning record
Conflict is a normal part of any relationship.
The strength of a relationship comes from how quickly and honestly people fix problems after they happen. This process is called 'rupture and repair'.
Conflict, or 'rupture', will always happen between people. It is a normal part of working or living together. The most important skill is 'repair'. Repair means fixing the problem and reconnecting with the other person. This way, people do not feel bad about having a conflict. They focus on making things better.
A developer and a designer disagree strongly about a project's look. This is a 'rupture'. Later, the developer says, 'I was frustrated, but I value your ideas.' The designer says, 'I understand. Let's find a solution together.' This is 'repair'. Their team relationship becomes stronger.
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Conflict is a normal part of any relationship. The strength of a relationship comes from how quickly and honestly people fix problems after they happen. This process is called 'rupture and repair'.