A person often expresses fear as criticism. An AI model can help a user find the real fear behind the criticism. Addressing the real fear leads to better solutions.
By Pawan Nayar · from the LLOS AI Learning record
A person often expresses fear as criticism.
An AI model can help a user find the real fear behind the criticism. Addressing the real fear leads to better solutions.
People sometimes criticize because they are afraid. The criticism is like noise. The real fear is the important message. A person should look for the fear, not just the words of criticism. This helps solve the real problem.
A student tells a parent about a new career idea. The parent says, 'That job is not good.' The student asks, 'What are you most afraid of about my future with this job?' The parent then says, 'I am afraid you will not earn enough money.' The student now knows the real fear.
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Giving a name to a difficult experience helps people. It shows them that others have felt the same way.
A person's first reaction is often to fix a problem. However, the upset person first needs to feel heard.
An 'I feel' statement changes the focus. It moves from blaming another person to describing one's own emotion.
People sometimes use words that do not fully show their feelings. A parent might say something that sounds like control.
A person often expresses fear as criticism. An AI model can help a user find the real fear behind the criticism. Addressing the real fear leads to better solutions.