A boundary statement is a clear message. It tells another person what action affects a person. It explains how that action makes a person feel. It states what a person needs to happen next.
By Pawan Nayar · from the LLOS AI Learning record
A boundary statement is a clear message.
It tells another person what action affects a person. It explains how that action makes a person feel. It states what a person needs to happen next.
A boundary statement helps a person communicate clearly. It has three parts. First, describe the action that is happening. Second, explain the feeling caused by that action. Third, state what is needed to change the situation. This method helps a person speak calmly. It makes the boundary a clear statement of fact. It helps the other person understand what to do.
A student tells a classmate, 'When you copy my homework, it makes me feel worried. I need you to do your own work.' The student clearly states the action, the feeling, and the need.
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People make mistakes. This is normal.
People sometimes use words that do not fully show their feelings. A parent might say something that sounds like control.
A boundary helps people understand each other. It shows how to interact in a way that is good for everyone.
A person can admit to feeling nervous or awkward. This honesty can disarm the situation.
A boundary statement is a clear message. It tells another person what action affects a person. It explains how that action makes a person feel. It states what a person needs to happen next.