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How can a person stop seeking approval from a parent who will not give it?

A person can grieve the loss of an ideal parent. This helps the person accept what happened. It allows the person to move forward instead of waiting for approval.

By Pawan Nayar · from the LLOS AI Learning record

The rule

A person can grieve the loss of an ideal parent.

This helps the person accept what happened. It allows the person to move forward instead of waiting for approval.

A person often hopes for a parent to change. This hope can cause disappointment. Grieving the idea of a perfect parent helps. It means accepting that the parent will not be the person needed. This acceptance allows a person to heal and move on.

A student always tries to make a parent proud. The parent never shows approval. The student feels sad and tries harder. A teacher suggests grieving the idea of a supportive parent. The student learns to accept the parent as they are. The student stops seeking approval.

Questions people ask

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How can a person accept a parent who did not meet their needs?

A person often feels pain for the parent they wanted. This pain is a form of grief.

How can a person deal with sadness about a parent who did not meet their needs?

A person can feel sad about the parent they wanted. This is different from being sad about the parent they have.

How can a person forgive someone without talking to them?

Forgiving someone does not mean a person must speak to them. Forgiveness happens inside a person.

How can a person deal with anger towards a parent who did not meet their needs?

A person can shift their focus from the parent's flaws to the loss of a basic need. This means understanding that anger often protects deeper sadness.

What to remember

A person can grieve the loss of an ideal parent. This helps the person accept what happened. It allows the person to move forward instead of waiting for approval.