A relationship needs many small, positive interactions. These interactions are like bids for connection. Ignoring these bids creates a deficit, which harms the relationship.
By Pawan Nayar · from the LLOS AI Learning record
A relationship needs many small, positive interactions.
These interactions are like bids for connection. Ignoring these bids creates a deficit, which harms the relationship.
Many small, missed interactions can damage a relationship. These missed moments create a 'deficit' of connection. This deficit makes the relationship weaker over time. It is not one big problem, but many small ones.
A parent is busy working on a computer. A child asks the parent to look at a drawing. The parent says, 'Just a minute,' but keeps working. The child feels ignored. If this happens often, the child may stop trying to connect with the parent.
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A relationship needs many small, positive interactions. These interactions are like bids for connection. Ignoring these bids creates a deficit, which harms the relationship.