LIFE
Relationship Lab

The Wider Nest

Extended family — in-laws, cousins, joint family

The family you didn't choose but can't escape. In-laws, family gatherings, cultural expectations.

83 questions 5 life stages

Life Stages

Each stage holds different questions

Teen

35 questions

Young Adult

20 questions

Adult

15 questions

Middle Age

8 questions

Elder

5 questions

Questions

Teen (13-17)

· 35 questions

Am I a bad person for not wanting to see my family?

How can I feel less awkward around my cousins?

How can I set boundaries with family without causing a huge fight?

How can I survive family holidays with a critical family?

How do I deal with family members who make fun of me?

How do I deal with nosy relatives?

How do I deal with relatives who compare me to my cousins?

How do I handle my family's political or religious comments?

How do I respond to judgmental comments from relatives?

How do I set boundaries without causing a huge fight?

How do I stop letting my relatives' comments hurt my feelings?

How do I survive family gatherings?

How to tell my parents I don't want to go?

I feel judged by my grandparents/aunts/uncles. What do I do?

I have nothing in common with my relatives. How do I make conversation?

I'm an introvert, how do I handle big family parties?

Is it normal to not like your extended family?

My cousins are all so much more successful/popular, how do I deal with the comparison?

My family doesn't accept me for who I am (sexuality, gender, interests). How do I survive being around them?

My grandma keeps commenting on my weight, how do I make her stop?

What are good excuses to not go to a family event?

What do I do when my parents don't defend me?

What do I do when my relatives criticize my appearance?

What do I say when my aunt asks about my future/grades/dating life?

What if I have a panic attack at a family gathering?

What if my parents and relatives are fighting?

What if the reason I'm anxious is because someone in my family has hurt me before?

What to do when I feel overwhelmed and need a break?

What to say when my aunt asks why I don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend?

Why are my relatives so judgmental?

Why do I feel like I have to perform for my family?

Why do I feel like a different person around my family?

Why do I feel so drained and exhausted after seeing my family?

Why do I get so anxious around my extended family?

Why does my family treat me like a little kid?

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Family isn't always blood. But blood is always complicated.

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