The Wider Nest
Extended family — in-laws, cousins, joint family
The family you didn't choose but can't escape. In-laws, family gatherings, cultural expectations.
“AITA for not wanting to go to family holidays because of my distant cousins?”
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Teen
35 questions
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20 questions
Adult
15 questions
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8 questions
Elder
5 questions
Teen (13-17)
· 35 questionsAm I a bad person for not wanting to see my family?
How can I feel less awkward around my cousins?
How can I set boundaries with family without causing a huge fight?
How can I survive family holidays with a critical family?
How do I deal with family members who make fun of me?
How do I deal with nosy relatives?
How do I deal with relatives who compare me to my cousins?
How do I handle my family's political or religious comments?
How do I respond to judgmental comments from relatives?
How do I set boundaries without causing a huge fight?
How do I stop letting my relatives' comments hurt my feelings?
How do I survive family gatherings?
How to tell my parents I don't want to go?
I feel judged by my grandparents/aunts/uncles. What do I do?
I have nothing in common with my relatives. How do I make conversation?
I'm an introvert, how do I handle big family parties?
Is it normal to not like your extended family?
My cousins are all so much more successful/popular, how do I deal with the comparison?
My family doesn't accept me for who I am (sexuality, gender, interests). How do I survive being around them?
My grandma keeps commenting on my weight, how do I make her stop?
What are good excuses to not go to a family event?
What do I do when my parents don't defend me?
What do I do when my relatives criticize my appearance?
What do I say when my aunt asks about my future/grades/dating life?
What if I have a panic attack at a family gathering?
What if my parents and relatives are fighting?
What if the reason I'm anxious is because someone in my family has hurt me before?
What to do when I feel overwhelmed and need a break?
What to say when my aunt asks why I don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Why are my relatives so judgmental?
Why do I feel like I have to perform for my family?
Why do I feel like a different person around my family?
Why do I feel so drained and exhausted after seeing my family?
Why do I get so anxious around my extended family?
Why does my family treat me like a little kid?